If there is something trying to hold you back, try this

If you feel forces attempting to hold you back, do not go to war with them. Your freedom likely lives in your gentleness and forgiveness.

Fighting an unending, un-winnable battle with something or someone that will not change or go away is a distraction to your purpose and helps the opposing force win.

When you forgive it, you get to go free. Devote your energy to what’s yours to accomplish and let the heavy fall away.