If it doesn’t serve anyone, it isn’t serving you
My greed, selfishness, over-indulgence, laziness, meanness, resentment, sense of obligation, frustration, exhaustion, self-neglect, fear of looking bad, and self-importance don’t serve you. That is how I know they don’t serve me.
The way it works is if it doesn’t serve someone else, it doesn’t serve us. If we want to serve ourselves, our job is to serve others.
What if your path to a happier life was the path to helping others have a happier life?