Authentic commitment creates freedom, not deprivation

When we say yes to something that uplifts us and others, we must understand that by committing, we are preparing to say no to many other shiny objects that may pull for our attention.  Whether we are committing to a relationship, a project, a role, or a way of being in the world, our commitment serves to help us focus our energy and deepen our positive impact on those we touch. When we do this, we deepen our impact on others and open ourselves up to be impacted by the important people in our lives. This reciprocal impact on one another is one of the most essential parts of being alive, if not the most. 

While you may need to say no to many things to fulfill your commitment to what is most important, if you truly are giving your energy to what is essential, you can guarantee that you will feel the freedom that comes from genuinely expressing yourself, receiving love, and contributing to the world. There is no greater freedom than not needing to give your energy to what is trivial and meaningless.

What is it time to commit to, so you can have your freedom?

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