Fighting is easy
It always feels easier to fight with someone else than it does to resolve our inner pain, so we take it out on one another.
You don’t need to take it out on anyone. You are created from love and intricately connected to it. You have all the love you need available to go inward and see what there is to resolve and dissolve.
Might it even be possible that, keeping your focus on love as the pull to go to war arises, the love you choose to express begins to dissolve the war within you?