You’re always disappointing someone
And this is excellent news because you no longer have to try to please everyone.
Knowing you will always be disappointing someone, you can choose whom. You can only focus on one thing at a time, even if multiple things are vying for it. So, when you need to, you can choose who you would like to give your energy to and who you would like to let be disappointed.
And at the end of the day, giving your energy to someone certainly doesn’t mean they won’t be disappointed compared to what they expect. It is the way human beings work. So, the most important person not to disappoint is yourself.
As you decide where to focus your energy and attention right now, ask yourself what would make you the most proud.