Things that unwork the work
If you are not willing to:
Be comfortable with discomfort
Have tough conversations
Do things that scare you
Apologize when you don’t want to
Speak up when you’re nervous
Take total responsibility for making the changes you seek
Appreciate yourself when one else does
Then, none of the other work matters. You can study, consume, and think about change all you want, and none of it will change things if you aren’t willing to do the things most people won’t do.
Where do you simply need to be willing to be uncomfortable to create the change you crave?