The utility of your problems

You can use your problems as access to create solutions and grow, which is part of your purpose. Or, you can use your problems to make yourself more stuck, which goes against your design.

The people you choose to talk to about what’s going on for you have a significant impact. If you share with people listening to collaborate and grow, you will likely see new opportunities. On the other hand, if you complain to folks who want to stay small, they will be happy to reinforce your smallness.

The way you treat and talk about your problems creates your life. Problems are not a problem. You are a solution.