The problem with avoiding what you don’t want
If you avoid what you don’t want, then what you do want will avoid you.
That said, avoiding is different from authentically choosing. You can choose not to spend time with someone, yet if you avoid them because of something unresolved in yourself, you are guaranteeing that you won’t be open to receiving the truly amazing things you want in your life.
Even the best things come with downsides and challenges. Until you have nothing to avoid, you will feel like you are missing something.
Where is it time to be open to what you don’t want so you can have what you want?
