The gift of the burden
Surrender could be considered the ultimate form of power. It is the opposite of resignation. It is an acknowledgement of what is most important.
The gift of the most challenging thing in your life right now could be the access to grace, wisdom, relief, and presence. They like to wait on the other side of struggle. What if you stopped fighting and avoiding it and softened right into it?
The best thing could come as a result of the hardest thing.