Love yourself enough to love others
You’ve probably heard it say that you can only love someone else as much as you love yourself. But it is also an act of self-love to love others when you feel pulled to do otherwise.
When you choose to harbor anger, resentment, judgment, or anything else of a similar flavor towards anyone else, you are the one stuck with that feeling, not the other person. Love yourself enough to share love out. You receive what you send.