If you want people to be able to relax around you
When our souls can rest, we can see more clearly, be more loving, give more, and receive more. We need to have the perfect amount of rest to endure, create, contribute, be challenged, and grow.
If you want to be someone who supports people in feeling clear, loving, generous, receptive, creative, and powerful, creating an environment with enough ease is critical. Ease doesn’t mean you don’t talk about or do the tough stuff; it means you don’t make it harder than it has to be by bringing judgment, fear, comparison, lack, doubt, or anything of that flavor into the space.
There is no way around the challenges and heartbreaks of this life. Yet, when we deeply know and can rest in the truth of who we are at our essence, these obstacles don’t need to threaten our worth, and our souls can rest. If we want people to let go and trust us, we need to be able to let go ourselves and trust in something bigger.
Could it be that the most critical knowledge to have as a “leader” is your own knowing of what you believe you can rest it?