How to use what you want
There will often be a gap between what you want and what you have.
We know that nature abhors a vacuum, so you must decide what you want to fill that gap with, or it will get filled with something you didn’t choose.
You can either use the gap to inspire you into action right now, or you can use the gap to beat yourself up and play the victim. Our authentic desires are meant to call us into joyful action, not to weigh us down with shoulds.
What action could you take right now that would move you closer to what you want? What if the action was the whole point, not the result?