Choose yourself, not sides.
“Choosing” a side often feels safer than choosing to trust yourself.
Maybe it feels easier to pick a side so you and others can know where you “fit in.” Instead of choosing one person over another, perceiving one as right and one as wrong, or believing that one group has to lose or take the blame for there to be a winner or a good guy, could you practice being vulnerable enough to stand for something bigger than division?
Maybe by not choosing a side, you get to choose yourself.