Being observant

Being observant could be one of the most important skills to cultivate. However, it is not the only skill to hone, as being observant without skillful action is selfish.

However, acting without discernment is also selfish yet self-sabotaging. The sweet spot of self-care and contribution is where we can be attentive enough to notice the forces at play yet be generous enough to want to make things better without employing shame and blame.