Are you being a bridge or a wall?
Being aware of the reasons why something might not work can be helpful so you can include them in your solution. However, focusing mainly on why something won’t work will ensure that it doesn’t happen.
Focusing on the possibilities and inviting other people into those possibilities through who you are being is how to create the bridge from where you are to where you want to go.
If you look to your current impasse, are you being a wall or are you being a bridge?